getting your partner on board for a romantic session | gwinnett county photographer

Sometimes, unfortunately, when it comes to couples photography, one person istotally on board and excited about it, while the other half is less than thrilled with the idea. Oftentimes, there is some reluctance about a session because it doesn’t seem fun, it will likely be annoying having someone tell you to “smile” every two seconds, and you have plenty of selfies from date nights, so why bother? What is the point? Why be dragged to a long hour of standing there, feeling dumb in front of a stranger with a camera when you can be home, watching the game or catching up on Game of Thrones?

Trust me, I hear you. Getting photos done can be tedious and, honestly, kind of lame.  If that seems like something your significant other has expressed to you and you are looking for clues about getting him or her on board, I have a few ideas to help out. Take a look at these few prompts. Then, take a few minutes to talk to your significant other about them. Get raw, honest, and open. 

(1) Tell your significant other what this romantic session would mean to you.

Romantic sessions with me involve a lot of one-on-one time, precious moments with you connecting with each other. This can be such a nice change from the everyday realities we all deal with day to day. That can be such a nice way to have some time just for the two of you. You end up with photos that bring about your own epic love story, rather than the “typical” and often cheesy couples photos often sprinkled through your newsfeed. These aren’t photos you can get from a selfie before a hike or after dinner. If those things are important to you, tell your significant other. This probably is not something he/she has really considered. Get honest about why that is important to you.

(2) Talk about what it would specifically entail. 

With each session, we start with a consultation to get to know each other and discuss the vision for the shoot. Often, we grab coffee and take an hour or so to hang out. It’s rather casual and (I promise) not painful. :) During the session, I work very precisely to get the results we want. My couples get very close and stay that way. A LOT of kisses, closeness, and all-around physical contact. We also have a ton of fun! It is hard to capture tender moments and intimacy without a lot of goofing off and laughing--it’s all a part of the fun and experience. Rather than let your significant other assume it will seem really cheesy or be really annoying, let him/her know what it will really be like (emphasize the PDA and fun times ;)).

(3) Discuss any qualms.

What is the biggest concern? Ask for specific hang-ups your significant other has and really listen to what he/she is saying to you. Don’t go into this discussion hearing specifically to make counter-points. Take the time to have an open conversation. Connect with each other and let your feelings be known. 

There are plenty of possible doubts your significant other may be feeling, but these tips should help you two to get on the same page about it and move forward. If you are looking for information about a romantic session so you can bring it up with your partner, email me and I can share more about the process.